Is he driving me to this?

BF is in a hurry to get married - we are looking at January. Lately, I've noticed that he does very little in our home (we live together). I've noticed some jealousy issues too (we actually had a week long argument over some guy I talked to in FB - i've known him for 40 years). I've been on vacation for a week....I have a very difficult job (I am actually looking for a new one) and was very upset yesterday thinking about going back to work today. Last night he exploded bc I left the bedroom (I could not sleep) and he went on and one about how i don't care about him anymore. I have child...I'm a single custody parent...I take care of an elderly parent...and now i have another person in my home to care for AND and aweful job. I am feeling very slighted and upset with these outbursts. I have so much to deal with on a daily basis and these constant stupid arguments have me fed up. He keeps telling me it is bc I fell out of love with him. I think it is his actions causing these issues (oh, yeah, he argues with my daughter too {age 13}.